Hmmm not that I was selfish or that I didn't care about my ex before, but him committing suicide had nothing to with me. It would be too selfish for him to leave me here to take the blame for his death.Later I found out that I greatly helped my ex by leaving him as he was able to deal with issues about himself first. So I think the therapist advising the girl to stay with her partner, was like the parents of my ex.

At least we're all stronger for our lessons.

True.