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RE: A Grandpa's Love: A Gift For My Granddaughter
maybe in a moment of calm conversation between spouse ... your son could inquire what equitable treatment would look like to her? It's hard to compare interaction with kids when there is a constant presence and when there is visits.
And you may be right that she's not feeling supported after her surgery. Even if she wont admit her discomfort.
Thanks for that, @shadowspub.
I'm not sure if the conversation will happen, but it would be nice. She seems to hold some longtime resentment, some sort of always being on the short end of things, so now it's carrying over to her children. I wasn't around for her upbringing, so I don't know what is and isn't true. I just know I love my grandchildren. All of them.
If the situation is ever reversed, we'll end up doting on their children for the short period of time they're visiting and doing our best to play with and love the one(s) living with us.