A famous philsopher once said if all there was to life was seeking pleasure and avoiding pain than you should be itching powder and a scratching stick. The point being we need these experiences. To reference the famous quote of Neitzche "what doesn't kill me makes me stronger" we need to battle through these tough spots and bathe in the accomplishment that follows.I have had a horrible 2 years and my consolation is that I am still here and still maintaining a stable existence.