RE: Another spoken word poem of mine.
Heyyy !!! Well, if you are paying her back with these harsh feelings and words, dude, you are no different from her !! If you cared for her so much and loved her so much then what she did to you shouldn't change anything. I am sorry, I have been too deep in understanding the reality of love and to be frank what you said in the video above, I can not see love in it at all !! Its such a coincidence that I finished up writing my poetry about the fake love that people get trapped into. We all need to understand that this isn't love. Love can not be painful !! It really disturbs me to the core when I see people crying and blaming love for it, or the other person. Love never blames. You and everyone else need to read this poetry - "SPURIOUSNESS OF TRUE LOVE" which might not just ease your pain but also can make you realise it wasn't love. I hope god blesses you and you can come out of this trap as soon as possible.
Letting someone walk all over you isn't love either.
If you loved someone and they raped and murdered someone you think you should not say anything? Or change how you feel at all?
The bad things people do should be acknowledged. Unconditional love is most likely a myth and if it was possible it would not be something I would want.
I still love her, but not as much. Because she cheated on me 3 times and ignored me and lied and treated me like shit. You think I should just ignore all that? Sorry. No.
You have your opinion. I have mine. I change how I look at people based on how they act and what they do, and ME SPEAKING OUT about being mistreated IS NOT THE SAME THING AS BEING MISTREATED..
Do you think victims of rape should also just shut up and not speak out? I mean how far does that logic of yours go? Why do you think victims should not speak their mind? That's really strange to me.
Silence never favors the victim, silence always favors the abuser.
You didn't check my link. That's why I mentioned it. But no worries I think i will have to repeat it all again here as you are not making the required effort.
I am not talking about allowing someone to take benefit of you. I am talking about not feeling the pain that you are feeling. Of course as I mentioned in my poem which I gave you the link to that first you need to love yourself only then can you love someone else. And when you love yourself you wont allow someone to rape you.
Now you say she cheated you 3 times! She could have cheated you 5 times, you shouldn't give so many chances to someone. If you loved yourself first then you wouldn't have done that. So it's your fault first.
Of course everyone have their own opinions. But opinions are never permanent. I think this platform is more about understanding each other then contradicting each other. If you want only those people to comment who have same opinions as yours, then you can never allow new ideas and thinking to generate. Facing criticism helps one develop and it shouldn't be shunned upon by a wise man.
You speaking out is not what I consider wrong, you being so effected and so in pain is what hurts me. What forced you to speak about it? Not because it can benefit anyone else, or because that girl can be arrested for what she did wrong as it was required if she was a murderer. You are speaking because its hurting you and that is what concerns me.
Victims should speak if they want to save other people from being the next victim. I am not comparing love and crime at all here. And there is no reason that they should be compared. And if you still don't understand, kindly go through my poetry. I wrote it for helping people like you only. Good luck