You didn't check my link. That's why I mentioned it. But no worries I think i will have to repeat it all again here as you are not making the required effort.

I am not talking about allowing someone to take benefit of you. I am talking about not feeling the pain that you are feeling. Of course as I mentioned in my poem which I gave you the link to that first you need to love yourself only then can you love someone else. And when you love yourself you wont allow someone to rape you.

Now you say she cheated you 3 times! She could have cheated you 5 times, you shouldn't give so many chances to someone. If you loved yourself first then you wouldn't have done that. So it's your fault first.

Of course everyone have their own opinions. But opinions are never permanent. I think this platform is more about understanding each other then contradicting each other. If you want only those people to comment who have same opinions as yours, then you can never allow new ideas and thinking to generate. Facing criticism helps one develop and it shouldn't be shunned upon by a wise man.

You speaking out is not what I consider wrong, you being so effected and so in pain is what hurts me. What forced you to speak about it? Not because it can benefit anyone else, or because that girl can be arrested for what she did wrong as it was required if she was a murderer. You are speaking because its hurting you and that is what concerns me.

Victims should speak if they want to save other people from being the next victim. I am not comparing love and crime at all here. And there is no reason that they should be compared. And if you still don't understand, kindly go through my poetry. I wrote it for helping people like you only. Good luck