i have been doing some meditation lately (i mean the practice) and it helps to put things in context.
maybe some previous generations like your father needed to deal with other types of societies and they adapt to it... trying to teach to their kids they way they found to solve their problems, but the problems that our parents had are not the same than the ones that we need to deal with...
so... we need to listen, but right our own path...
welcome to steem!