Your reflection on C.S. Lewis makes sense. I’ve never shied away from the role of a housewife — in fact, I’ve always taken pride in it. There is dignity, purpose, and a quiet strength in holding a home together, and Lewis puts that truth into words beautifully.

But the point I want to highlight is this: while I embrace this role wholeheartedly, the expectations placed on me often extend far beyond just my home. I’m responsible not only for my own family, but for his side of the family as well — emotionally, socially, practically. The weight of these responsibilities somehow defaults to the woman.

And yet, this balance isn’t always reciprocal.

So yes, I honor the work of a housewife. I consider it meaningful. But I also believe that if this role is seen as central and life-giving, then its emotional and social burdens should be shared with the same sincerity and respect — not assumed to be mine alone.