Yes, it's possible for sure. My immediate thought was your age as well... we were both 30 when we met. I think its an age where you are more circumspect and less likely to buy into same patterns of past as they no longer serve you. And if you've learnt to be less accusatory and willing to look at any conflict through other prisms, then that will help. Oh.. and taking a breath! Giving space for whatever you are feeling, both of you. As well as the breath out ... never go to sleep on an argument, never leave the house on an argument!! Always realise that love is bigger than the other stuff and you have to CHOOSE that every.single.time.

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