Sorry to answer your #comment late.
I think what you said is more appropriate. I remember clearly there was a little disappointment when I asked permission to return to work, but my mother-in-law realized that there was a responsibility that I had to do. However, all of that left a mark so that I became more aware of how much she loved me. From that fact I knew and realized how I had to take care of her daughter who was also my wife. I had to see how the mother who had conceived then given birth and raised a beautiful girl and then I took it. Isn't this a form of "cruelty"?
I try to continue to maintain this attitude and attention as a form of responsibility for getting a daughter from my mother-in-law.
so every time there is a problem I will return it to the love of our mother and parents. that will make us more aware that we have a responsibility and don't need to avoid problems.
"Face it and it will definitely be resolved with the best"