A good point @suntree the only problem was they were not giving me a choice I told them I could not afford to spare them any but they said they would forcefully search me for money and if they found any I would then get a beating if I didn't own up to it. You also have a good point I know perhaps they were just doing what they needed to do but from what I can understand they brought an expensive pair of trainers with some of the money so not exactly essentials and regardless of their reasons they could be causing all sorts of harm to people in different ways, but yes thank you for the thought, I must be pleased that thank-goodness I was not hurt this time around, the emotional wounds are difficult to shift but so far doing a good job of it I hope this continues once I get back to the routine, and sorry for the late reply.