SLC-S29/W3-“Thinking and Ideas!| Seeing Problems Differently
Greetings Dear Steemians!!
Delighted to be part of the challenge once again, being a parents of my three kids, I am very sensitive, possessive, responsible and accountable regarding care , affection, soult out the issues of my kids and given quality time to my kids .
By concerning about my kids heathier and happier upbringing, I deeply think and noticed that many of couples who became newly parents or who are one and more then three kids are just providing needs of thier kids without knowing emotional feeling's thier kids
Yes!! They are playing thier formal role of parents but they are forgetting to address the issues of their kids and they are ignoring feelings of affection these are might be minor problems but for thier kids these will become more major problems that will be effected thier personalities badly.
Identify one everyday problem in your community or country and explain some steps in solving them.
This is era of social media , everything viral on social media apps globally we can see harassment cases of parents towards thier kids and ignoring behavior of parents for the care of thier own kids so much videos and genuine cases are on it. This is really hurtful and awful feelings towards the innocent kids not in our community in all countries of the world.
Parents are at home but neglected parenting role
Being a housewife and mother of three kids , I give all my time to my kids. I oftentimes play double role of parents ( Mother & Father ) because my husband have his own business and mostly he is not available to give his affection and time to Kids . In his absence I perform my double duty to fill the gap of their father. I do this that because I have seen many daily basis cases in which kids are badly ignored both of their parents and so that they lose their confidence, they they behave harsh, they feel lonely and they engage thier self in anti-social activities that are badly effecting thier personality and damaging thier bright future.
Steps to Solving them
Kids only not need cloths, food , education or something else like playing gadgets they need time , attention, care , love , affection and feeling of presence of thier parents ( mother and father)
| Step 1 | Listen calmly instead scolding or judging to our kids |
|---|---|
| Step 2 | Create boundaries to fulfill their needs or wishes |
| Step 3 | play separately role of mother and father. Because of thier consistent and healthy development both time , affection , physical and emotional appearance is important for them |
| Step 3 | Teach social values to thier kids by their own well civilized actions |
| Step 4 | Parents should address the minor problems as before they become major that is most important to implement |
| Step 5 | Parents are also not perfect sometimes to take decisions for their kids regarding solving the problems, they also should firstly consult with elders or well educated or experienced people who can better guide |
| Step 5 | Create healthy, safe and family friendly environment at home to feel comfortable and build confidence and become civilized kid |
Why do you think this problem still exists despite many people noticing it?
This is not only a problem this is a big issue of every country, Because kids are the assets of our nation, If we will upbringing them accordingly to the School of thoughts then they can develop a successful nation.
But unfortunately, we are delivering kids at every next second but are very neglected to play the actual role of parenting therefore every next child is depress and deprived from the basic needs of his life. Husband and wife thier own conflicts in our daily life badly effecting the personality of our kids.
Many Housewives are busy to mend home chores , many housewives mostly harsh thier kids because mismanagement to perform thier responsibilities, on other sides many working women mother's not care thier kids and hire care taker who also not good behave thier kids. These should be noticed strictly for the sake of innocent kids healthy upbringing.
In your opinion, what is the most misunderstood part of this problem?
In our society, we can imagine that kids can be upbringing by their own self , they have no feelings they have no wishes they have no need of affection and time. This misunderstood perception in mostly parents cause the serious problems regarding the healthy and safe upbringing of their kids. Negligence of thier parents kids can lose their life , negligence of thier parents kids damage thier personality badly and misunderstanding thoughts of the parents, kids and parents both suffer badly in future.
If you could change one mindset related to this issue, what would it be?
I have seen live and watched on Social media many negligence cases of parents towards thier kids healthy upbringing that is really hurtful and awful. I feel so much sorry for that innocent kids. I really wish I would be there and can save that child. But I can just pray ..
Here's on, I get a chance to explain my feelings and share my experience and express my thoughts towards address this issue
Kids are the so much beautiful and innocent blessing of Allah , we should everytime thank you to Allah who became us parents, Because I also know that without kids, Married life is useless and colorless, Presence of kids in our life is crucial responsibility for parents. Because today if we play our role with responsibility, originality and dedication then in next we develop a respectful and responsible child.
Thank you
In the end , I would like to invite my Steemit fellows @max-pro @selina1 & @jimiaera02 for taking part in the challenge. Thank you
Hi @uzma4882 , I enjoyed reading your interesting ideas are very coherent and relevan. Yes, every child needs good supervision and education to form a personality from an early age.
Difficult times aren't when children are still at home and all their needs are known and accessible. The greatest concern for parents in this modern era is facing a critical phase, the transition to adolescence, when they begin to explore things we don't know, and don't ask us to explain what they want to know.
Dealing with children at this stage requires great attention and supervision from every parent, and they must know and feel that every decision they make is under the control and supervision of their parents. This isn't pressure, nor is it interference, but rather supervision and facilitation towards mature thinking for aour child.
...because a parent's greatest responsibility is to equip or provide facilities them for independence and the development of common sense, So, they can choose and select quality friends and environments.
I hope your writing is one of the best in this challenge. 🙏
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