Some things we never want to talk about

Each one of us have some secrets in life, which we never want to share with anyone. Some times we are scared that if we share those secrets, we may fall apart and sometimes we keep the secret to keep our environment safe. Most of us carry some secrets in silence which we never want to disclose it to anyone. Being humans we tend to make mistakes in life, but that does not make us wrong people, and life is all about making mistakes and learning from them. We live through some moments of our life which we never want to share with anyone, sometimes not even with our own-self. We get scared confronting them, and imagine if we ourself will feel scared of that truth then how exposed we will be when shared with others, or probably others may not even be able to understand us.

It is always very easy to judge from the opposite side, but what one goes through sometimes in their lives and why mistakes are made it is not easy to understand that. Especially if one lacks empathy. Some times in the moment we do certain things that we are not meant to do and then later regret it also. Unless it is not bringing any harm and pain to someone else, I believe it is ok to keep our secret and not get exposed. In my counselling work, a lot of people share their secrets with me. When something is very heavy on your heart, sharing it makes you feel light. We may not always be able to share it with the people we know, we may have the fear of being judged by them. But sharing it with someone you do not know makes it easy.

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I always find this part of life very funny, when we are more comfortable sharing the most private things of our life with a person we do not know well and not with people who are close to us. It happens with me as well, Some times I share my emotions here about a certain incident or a person, but I am not able to share it with my close people. I am aware that people do not know me personally here, and even if they judge me it may not make a difference to me. But yes, the ones who know me personally, if they judge me it can make a difference to me.

It's ok to have our own secrets and live life in freedom. We do not have to reveal all the parts of our life even to our closest people. There are somethings that goes in graves with us.

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